Bonnie Miller: March 27, 2009 Hey everyone: Externalizing conversations- a hot topic for me- on the one hand, when they work they are amazing… on the other hand, I see this being taken up as a ‘tool’ or strategy by folks who do not understand (or want to understand?) the philosophical underpinnings of the idea- and this irks and alarms me. (how’s that for an opener?) it seems important to me that the therapist, if…